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  I am not here seeking admiration or devotion. I am here to be — and to show others that this way of being is not scary. I write because it is my salvation from messy thoughts and overwhelming days. Writing puts my mind in order. It gives me space for self-love and for catching my breath. I cannot be here all the time. Actually, I probably could — but I do not want to. I do not want to pay the price of viral fame. I do not want to lose myself in the illusion of the world around me. I do not want to forget where it all started or lose the ground under my feet. Being able to disappear is a necessity for me. It allows me to rest, to recharge, and to stay focused and calm. I disappear from the noise. From expectations. From the pressure that tells you that if you do not constantly do more, you will lose track or fail. When I come back, I see the world more clearly. Without pink glasses. Without dark thoughts taking over. I feel grounded again. I can look at...
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Standing my ground

 

A woman walking confidently through an urban space, surrounded by light and shadow.


The last time I felt my personal boundaries being crossed, I made a decision: I would not let it happen anymore.
I do not like this feeling — it is like someone stepping into my personal space, violating my privacy and my personal rights.

I know people have different value systems.
Mine is strict, yes — but that does not make it wrong.
And it certainly does not make it acceptable to cross my boundaries.

The first thing I did after making this decision was saying “no” — loud and clear.
Putting a brake on behavior that felt unacceptable to me.

Was it scary?
No.
It took me years to get to this point, and I was ready more than ever.

I was finally able to draw a clear line between my health and toxic attitudes that invade like cancer.
For me, it was liberating.
It felt like growing wings — like I could finally fly away from unpleasant circumstances.

If you are in a place where you do not feel comfortable, but you are not yet ready to take the next step, do not rush it.
Give yourself time.

Make a list of your qualities.
Remember — there are no good or bad ones. They depend on the situation and on how they are used.

Take small steps that build your confidence and make you feel safer.
Your voice will become steadier.
Your walk more assertive.

Stand up for yourself.
Do not let yourself stay in a bad place.
Remember — you deserve to be happy and to feel well.

 

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